May 11th, 2010

Domo Arigato

For some reason I got in the habit of drawing on the take-home boxes from restaurants when Megan and I go out to eat.  I am not an artist, nor do I have an urge to draw much, but this is something I’ve really enjoyed doing.  Usually I will ask her what she’d like me to draw, with the stipulation that it be something simple.  It’s normally something like flowers or a wedding dress and the like.  I tend to kid her about how she never wants me draw “manly things” like UFOs or monsters.

On Saturday we went to Puccini’s with her dad and she was away from the table when the waitress brought the box.  So I decided it was high time I drew her a robot:

I really like the look on his face – he’s either happy or crazy, and I suspect he might be a little of both.

Shine on, you crazy robot diamond.

May 6th, 2010

Birthday

Song Info (from Beatlesongs):”Birthday” is on the White Album, and was 70% written by McCartney, 30% by Lennon.  Some sources say it was written for Patti Harrison, but Lennon said it “was written in the studio. Just made up on the spot.”  Harrison wore a glove during the session to avoid getting more blisters.  Lennon did not care for the song.

My BirthdayCourtesy of PBF Comics, which aren’t necessarily always something I’d recommend.

I discovered last year that my birthday is a good time to reflect on some of the stuff I did in the previous year.  Here’s the list for my 38th year.

  • Voluntarily went on a canoe trip
  • Rode two different horses on two separate occasions, one of them for about a half hour
  • Played in a softball league (and without serious injury!)
  • Replaced a kitchen light fixture (with Marshall’s help, but mostly by myself)
  • Rode a bike for the first time in who knows how long
  • Went to Cedar Point
  • Made a homemade pizza
  • Learned a couple of “signature dishes,” both made in the crockpot, both have teriyaki (albeit two different versions)
  • Got a new roommate after the first one moved out
  • Went to my first ever ballet – The Nutcracker – and enjoyed it
  • Started taking Tae Kwon Do lessons – I am currently an orange belt
  • Got engaged!
  • Started eating salads – my favorite one is Texas Roadhouse’s house salad with Caesar dressing and no onions
  • Stretched out Beatles Week longer than ever.  Someday Beatles Week will last all year.
  • Revamped the blog (with Brian’s help)
  • Only posted 26 blog entries, one every fortnight. That, to quote Charles Barkley, is just “turrible.”
  • Went to see the Star Trek exhibit in Detroit
  • Saw The Beatles in concert!  …okay, so it was a tribute group, but it was still tons of fun
  • Saw Steve Martin in concert in Chicago — a banjo concert!
  • Hosted International Beatles Rock Band Day, with friends coming from Australia, Florida, New Mexico, Illinois, and around town here coming to play Beatles Rock Band and hang out all day.  Super sweet!
  • Was in Greg & Emily’s wedding
  • Played a lot of euchre, but not nearly enough
  • Watched more movies with other than people than I watched alone – this is a bigger thing than it sounds like
  • Played Jesus for the second time in our church’s Passion Play
  • Started going to a different ABF (like Sunday School, but for grown-ups), which has me missing friends from our previous one :/
  • Started to learn how to dance… but only a little.  Long way to go before the wedding…

All in all a good year.  I have much to be thankful for.

May 4th, 2010

Roll Over Beethoven

Song Info (from Beatlesongs):”Roll Over Beethoven” was on the With the Beatles album and was 100% written by Chuck Berry.  The song was part of the band’s repertoire for concerts from the late 50s into 1964, including their 1964 North American tour.  All four of them provided the handclaps for the song.

People like to use “you can’t teach an old dog new tricks” as an excuse to not try new things.  I don’t know if it’s actually true about actual dogs, but the thinking is, a person gets too set in their ways, too used to how they do things, and there’s no sense in trying to get them to do different things.  There’s a certain comfort in the phrase, and a chance for both the sayer and the hearer to nod their heads knowingly and leave it at that.  ”Well,” they both agree, “that’s the end of that.  No getting around that one!”

Hogwash.

Thing is, I’ve held to that point of view for a long time.  I may not have ever said it (though I’d be surprised if that were true), but I’ve certainly lived by it.  ”Don’t try to change me.”  ”I’m set in my ways.” “I like what I like.”  Those are certainly things I’ve said, and more than once each.

There’s another phrase that you hear: “If you always do what you always did, you’ll always get the same result.”  This phrase has been sticking with me lately.  I don’t know if it’s because I’m just about to turn 38 or because I’m about to get married or something else entirely or both of those together, but there’s been a lot of self-evaluation going on.  Megan and I have been going through premarital counseling, so there’s been a lot of “How do each of you act in this particular situation?” and “What do each of you think about ________?”, so I’m sure that’s part of it.

I really want to be a good husband.  Sure, that’s a nice sentiment, I know.  But… I really do.  I want to find out what makes a good husband and do that, be that.  I also want to be a good father, should that be a thing that happens.  I want to be a good friend, a good worker, a good owner of cats, a good… whatever else.  For me, that’s all tied up in my faith – I want to be a good Christian.  Whether you like that or not, the way I understand being a good Christian amounts to me being a good citizen, too.

So I’ve been thinking these things a lot, mulling them over, pondering them.  The trap I easily fall into, though, is leaving it there.  I can “think things through” longer than most of you kids have been alive, it seems like.  Change, thought, real change is about doing.  A phrase I hit upon earlier this year has stuck with me and become a goal of mine: “Live deliberately.”  I want to specifically pick things to change and then do it, change them.

So here’s a list of things I want to be doing every day, where “every day” is defined as “somewhere between 5-7 times a week.”  While they are not all inherently spiritual, there is a spiritual aspect to doing things that I believe I should be doing.  The list so far:

  • Flossing – a simple thing, but very helpful, and more helpful the older I get here
  • Using the treadmill (for more than a place to hang things) – I have no interest in running outside, but if I could set up a laptop to be usable while I was on the treadmill?  That will make a world of difference.
  • Push-ups – There’s a program for getting yourself to the point where you can do 100 push-ups, and it really seems like something I could do and should do
  • Go to bed earlier – more specifically, before 11p.  This directly ties in with
  • Get up earlier – ideally, 5a.  The times in my life where I’ve done this have been fantastic, and I’d like to get back to it.
  • Read my Bible – the more I read it, the better I can remember what it is I need to be doing
  • Be on time – for work, for church, for everything I can be

It’s a start.  I’d like to revisit this in a year and be able to say, “Not only did I start that, I’m still doing all those things.”

I’ve never seen the movies referenced in the title of this entry, but I don’t have to to know that the titular character is a giant dog who brings chaos wherever he is.  I’d rather be an agent of serenity than an agent of chaos, a help to those around me rather than a hindrance.  And even though I’m a cat person, I’d like to think that this old dog can learn some new tricks.